"I understand your situation and support you," ?😑#expressionless😶 #honesthy
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Everyone says "I understand you," but in my opinion, this is not the truth...
They may be able to comprehend some of what you're going through, but the circumstance will not be identical to yours...
You are different from them in every aspect, so your ideas, feelings, and reactions will be dissimilar as well.
To be honest, "I never completely understand people." I receive a sight of something, and that vision is typically "understood" by my own experience. One of the reasons I mistake meaning is because of this. I'm not sure if I've experienced your experiences (frankly overhearing the words "my truth").
"I'll be there with you at any moment," some individuals say. There looks to be some joking going on. Because no one is ever there for you, they tell you that when you hear those words, you feel fantastic and that you have someone who understands you.
When you have a difficulty, no one comes to help assistance or even to protect you, in my perspective. You are completely independent to face and solve your own difficulties. No one understands you. even your family and best friend, who is always at your side. They don't understand your worries, and they certainly don't understand your pain. However, they may effortlessly say, "I understand you."
The truth is that many people will never understand you since humans are so expansive.
You can express your thoughts and feelings as clearly as possible, and (hopefully) there will be some understanding as a result. Remember that you, as the other person, took a lifetime to become who you are now. It's unrealistic to expect someone to realize (what a lifetime of experiences have created) who you are today in a short period of time.
Rather than trying to persuade people to understand you, try understanding them. As much as possible, put yourself in their shoes. Listening is more important than speaking. Instead of formulating what you will say in response, attempt to grasp what they are saying. Ask a lot of questions and don't take over the conversation.
when someone hurts you and then apologizes
know that YOUR STRENGTH Is All About how YOU RESPOND. While being attacked, the most powerful answer is patience, an inner smile, and saying to yourself, "I forgive you." You'll be shocked at how effective it is. Unfortunately, the only way to know for sure is to try it out for yourself.
Keep your strength up, but not to the point where your heart hardened like a stone.
Disclaimer: never tell your problems to anyone. 20% of people don't care about your problems and 80% are glad you have them...
Do not chase people. Be you and do your own thing and work hard. The right people who belong in your life will come to you and stay..,
Until then
XOXO😇
Stay safe
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